"點(dian)“姓是1991年在江蘇南京一(yi)家新創(chuang)的姓氏(shi)。該姓氏(shi)據(ju)說《太(tai)平圖話姓氏(shi)綜(zong)》上(shang)就有收錄,但歷(li)史上(shang)”點(dian)“是“點(dian)”的繁(fan)體字(zi)。
據(ju)載,在1991年江(jiang)蘇蘇州的一個典型的“421家庭”中(zhong),出現了姓(xing)(xing)“點(dian)”的孩子,這(zhe)個“點(dian)”姓(xing)(xing)也一般被認為是1991年所(suo)知人(ren)數(shu)最少的姓(xing)(xing)。
關(guan)于這(zhe)個(ge)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing),還有(you)一段耐(nai)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)尋味的(de)(de)(de)故事(shi)。在(zai)這(zhe)個(ge)“421家庭”中(zhong)有(you)爺爺、奶奶、外(wai)(wai)公(gong)、外(wai)(wai)婆(po)四位老人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)和一對夫妻、一個(ge)小孩。爺爺姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣,奶奶姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)宋(song),他(ta)們生了個(ge)兒子,按照傳(chuan)統習慣(guan),這(zhe)兒子也(ye)就承(cheng)父姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣,我們姑且(qie)叫(jiao)他(ta)蔣男;外(wai)(wai)公(gong)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)(bian),外(wai)(wai)婆(po)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)沈,他(ta)們生個(ge)女兒,也(ye)是依(yi)照傳(chuan)統,女兒承(cheng)父姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)(bian)我們姑且(qie)叫(jiao)她卞(bian)(bian)女。蔣男和卞(bian)(bian)女后來結成夫妻,之后就生下一個(ge)男孩。這(zhe)男孩的(de)(de)(de)出生使(shi)全家都很高興(xing),但在(zai)讓(rang)孩子姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)什么姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)的(de)(de)(de)問題上出現了分歧。爺爺希望遵從傳(chuan)統承(cheng)其父姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣;外(wai)(wai)公(gong)認為舊(jiu)習慣(guan)應該(gai)破除,最好依(yi)母(mu)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)(bian);外(wai)(wai)婆(po)則反對姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)(bian)一一小的(de)(de)(de)時(shi)候被(bei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)家叫(jiao)“小卞(bian)(bian)”,大了被(bei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)喊作“大卞(bian)(bian)”,有(you)把年紀了也(ye)不過(guo)稱(cheng)個(ge)“老卞(bian)(bian)”,很不雅觀,不如來個(ge)徹底的(de)(de)(de),姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)外(wai)(wai)婆(po)的(de)(de)(de)沈姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)。而(er)(er)奶奶卻說(shuo),即(ji)使(shi)從母(mu)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)也(ye)應姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)宋(song)。全家四個(ge)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing),都想讓(rang)這(zhe)惟一的(de)(de)(de)男孩為自己的(de)(de)(de)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)“接續(xu)香火”。后來,他(ta)們覺得“接續(xu)香火”的(de)(de)(de)想法太陳舊(jiu),共(gong)同商議孩子取個(ge)新姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)“點”。
因為這(zhe)個字的結構是上邊(bian)一個占(zhan)(zhan)有的占(zhan)(zhan)字,底下四點(dian)(dian),四點(dian)(dian)分別(bie)代表(biao)蔣、宋、卞(bian)、沈四位老(lao)(lao)人的姓(xing)。對(dui)老(lao)(lao)人而言(yan),“點(dian)(dian)”表(biao)示四姓(xing)(家)共同占(zhan)(zhan)有這(zhe)個孩子(zi);對(dui)孩子(zi)來(lai)說,“點(dian)(dian)”表(biao)示占(zhan)(zhan)有四姓(xing)老(lao)(lao)人的共同關愛。等商定以后,接著(zhu)為這(zhe)孩子(zi)取名(ming)“點(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)”,并到戶籍管(guan)理部門登記(ji)備案,使他從此(ci)有了(le)合(he)法(fa)的名(ming)字。
我(wo)們(men)知道它是(shi)(shi)一(yi)個新創的(de)(de)姓(xing)(xing)氏(shi)。那么(me),歷史上(shang)有沒(mei)有點(dian)(dian)姓(xing)(xing)呢?其實是(shi)(shi)有的(de)(de),但(dan)與(yu)這個點(dian)(dian)姓(xing)(xing)有所不同。歷史上(shang)的(de)(de)點(dian)(dian)姓(xing)(xing)寫作(zuo)“點(dian)(dian)”,是(shi)(shi)繁(fan)體(ti),據(ju)說(shuo)《太平圖話姓(xing)(xing)氏(shi)綜(zong)》上(shang)就有收(shou)錄。“點(dian)(dian)”字簡化為“點(dian)(dian)”,但(dan)它與(yu)內涵“四家共有”的(de)(de)“點(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)(hao)(hao)”的(de)(de)“點(dian)(dian)”,是(shi)(shi)有區別(bie)的(de)(de),至(zhi)少可以說(shuo)是(shi)(shi)姓(xing)(xing)源(yuan)不同。正(zheng)因(yin)如此(ci),“點(dian)(dian)”姓(xing)(xing)可寫作(zuo)“點(dian)(dian)”,“點(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)(hao)(hao)”卻不能寫成“點(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)(hao)(hao)”。若把“點(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)(hao)(hao)”寫成“點(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)(hao)(hao)”,也(ye)就把“四姓(xing)(xing)共有”的(de)(de)美(mei)好愿望改沒(mei)了。
歷史(shi)上(shang)曾(ceng)有(you)點(dian)姓(xing)(xing)(xing),但(dan)(dan)寫作“點(dian)”,據(ju)說《太平圖(tu)話姓(xing)(xing)(xing)氏綜》上(shang)就(jiu)有(you)收錄。后來,“點(dian)”簡化(hua)為(wei)“點(dian)”,但(dan)(dan)內涵與“四(si)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)共(gong)(gong)有(you)”的“點(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)(hao)”的“點(dian)”有(you)區別。“點(dian)”姓(xing)(xing)(xing)可寫作“點(dian)”,“點(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)(hao)”卻不能寫成(cheng)“點(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)(hao)”,不然“四(si)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)共(gong)(gong)有(you)”的美好愿望就(jiu)沒了。