"點“姓是1991年在江蘇南京一(yi)家新創的(de)姓氏。該姓氏據說《太平圖話(hua)姓氏綜(zong)》上就有(you)收(shou)錄,但歷史上”點“是“點”的(de)繁體(ti)字。
據載(zai),在1991年(nian)江蘇蘇州的一個(ge)典型的“421家庭”中,出現了姓“點”的孩子,這個(ge)“點”姓也一般被認為是(shi)1991年(nian)所(suo)知人數最少的姓。
關于這(zhe)個(ge)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing),還有一(yi)(yi)(yi)段耐人尋味的(de)(de)故事。在這(zhe)個(ge)“421家(jia)庭”中(zhong)有爺爺、奶(nai)奶(nai)、外公(gong)、外婆(po)四(si)位老人和(he)一(yi)(yi)(yi)對夫妻、一(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)小(xiao)孩(hai)(hai)。爺爺姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣(jiang),奶(nai)奶(nai)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)宋(song),他(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)生(sheng)了個(ge)兒(er)(er)子,按(an)照傳(chuan)統(tong)習(xi)慣(guan),這(zhe)兒(er)(er)子也(ye)(ye)就承父姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣(jiang),我(wo)(wo)們(men)(men)姑且叫(jiao)他(ta)(ta)蔣(jiang)男(nan);外公(gong)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)(bian)(bian),外婆(po)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)沈(shen),他(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)生(sheng)個(ge)女(nv)(nv)兒(er)(er),也(ye)(ye)是依照傳(chuan)統(tong),女(nv)(nv)兒(er)(er)承父姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)(bian)(bian)我(wo)(wo)們(men)(men)姑且叫(jiao)她卞(bian)(bian)(bian)女(nv)(nv)。蔣(jiang)男(nan)和(he)卞(bian)(bian)(bian)女(nv)(nv)后來(lai)結成夫妻,之(zhi)后就生(sheng)下一(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)男(nan)孩(hai)(hai)。這(zhe)男(nan)孩(hai)(hai)的(de)(de)出生(sheng)使全家(jia)都很(hen)高興,但在讓孩(hai)(hai)子姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)什么姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)的(de)(de)問題上出現了分歧。爺爺希望遵從(cong)傳(chuan)統(tong)承其父姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣(jiang);外公(gong)認(ren)為舊習(xi)慣(guan)應該破除,最好依母姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)(bian)(bian);外婆(po)則反對姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)(bian)(bian)一(yi)(yi)(yi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)小(xiao)的(de)(de)時候被(bei)人家(jia)叫(jiao)“小(xiao)卞(bian)(bian)(bian)”,大(da)了被(bei)人喊作“大(da)卞(bian)(bian)(bian)”,有把(ba)年紀了也(ye)(ye)不(bu)過稱個(ge)“老卞(bian)(bian)(bian)”,很(hen)不(bu)雅觀,不(bu)如來(lai)個(ge)徹底(di)的(de)(de),姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)外婆(po)的(de)(de)沈(shen)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)。而(er)奶(nai)奶(nai)卻說,即使從(cong)母姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)也(ye)(ye)應姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)宋(song)。全家(jia)四(si)個(ge)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing),都想讓這(zhe)惟一(yi)(yi)(yi)的(de)(de)男(nan)孩(hai)(hai)為自己的(de)(de)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)“接續(xu)香(xiang)火(huo)”。后來(lai),他(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)覺得“接續(xu)香(xiang)火(huo)”的(de)(de)想法太陳舊,共(gong)同商議(yi)孩(hai)(hai)子取個(ge)新姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)“點”。
因為這個字的結構(gou)是(shi)上(shang)邊一個占(zhan)(zhan)有(you)的占(zhan)(zhan)字,底下四點(dian),四點(dian)分(fen)別代表(biao)蔣、宋(song)、卞、沈四位老人(ren)的姓(xing)(xing)(xing)。對老人(ren)而言,“點(dian)”表(biao)示(shi)四姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(家)共(gong)同占(zhan)(zhan)有(you)這個孩子;對孩子來(lai)說,“點(dian)”表(biao)示(shi)占(zhan)(zhan)有(you)四姓(xing)(xing)(xing)老人(ren)的共(gong)同關愛。等商(shang)定以后,接著為這孩子取名“點(dian)佳浩”,并到戶籍管理部門登(deng)記備案,使他從此有(you)了合(he)法(fa)的名字。
我們(men)知(zhi)道(dao)它是(shi)一(yi)個(ge)新創的(de)(de)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)氏。那么,歷(li)(li)史(shi)上有(you)沒(mei)有(you)點(dian)(dian)(dian)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)呢?其(qi)實(shi)是(shi)有(you)的(de)(de),但(dan)與(yu)這個(ge)點(dian)(dian)(dian)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)有(you)所不(bu)同。歷(li)(li)史(shi)上的(de)(de)點(dian)(dian)(dian)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)寫作(zuo)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,是(shi)繁體,據說(shuo)《太(tai)平圖話姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)氏綜》上就有(you)收錄。“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”字簡化為“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,但(dan)它與(yu)內涵“四家共(gong)有(you)”的(de)(de)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”的(de)(de)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,是(shi)有(you)區(qu)別的(de)(de),至(zhi)少可(ke)以說(shuo)是(shi)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)源不(bu)同。正因如此,“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)可(ke)寫作(zuo)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”卻不(bu)能寫成“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”。若把(ba)(ba)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”寫成“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”,也(ye)就把(ba)(ba)“四姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)共(gong)有(you)”的(de)(de)美(mei)好(hao)愿(yuan)望改沒(mei)了。
歷史上(shang)曾有(you)(you)(you)點姓(xing),但寫(xie)(xie)作(zuo)“點”,據說《太平圖話(hua)姓(xing)氏(shi)綜》上(shang)就有(you)(you)(you)收(shou)錄(lu)。后來,“點”簡化為“點”,但內涵與“四姓(xing)共(gong)(gong)有(you)(you)(you)”的(de)“點佳(jia)浩”的(de)“點”有(you)(you)(you)區別。“點”姓(xing)可寫(xie)(xie)作(zuo)“點”,“點佳(jia)浩”卻(que)不能寫(xie)(xie)成“點佳(jia)浩”,不然(ran)“四姓(xing)共(gong)(gong)有(you)(you)(you)”的(de)美好愿(yuan)望就沒了。