一、正確認識性用品
人們應當(dang)消除對性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)品的(de)(de)認(ren)識(shi)誤區。生(sheng)活(huo)中有(you)人誤認(ren)為(wei)使用(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)品僅(jin)僅(jin)是為(wei)了滿足自(zi)慰,會傷害(hai)(hai)伴(ban)侶(lv)的(de)(de)感情(qing)和傷害(hai)(hai)自(zi)己(ji)的(de)(de)身體等。事實上(shang),性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)品的(de)(de)使用(yong)(yong)有(you)諸(zhu)多(duo)好處。在生(sheng)理發育成熟而(er)又沒有(you)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)伴(ban)侶(lv)的(de)(de)情(qing)況(kuang)下,使用(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)品是正常的(de)(de)、緩(huan)解性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)饑渴、釋放(fang)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)緊張的(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)種方式,能(neng)提(ti)供性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)享受,避免(mian)不(bu)(bu)良性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)行(xing)為(wei),減少(shao)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)病傳播。如果(guo)夫妻一(yi)(yi)起(qi)共(gong)同(tong)使用(yong)(yong),可(ke)以增(zeng)添性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)情(qing)趣,密(mi)切伴(ban)侶(lv)關系,增(zeng)加彼此信任,提(ti)升兩人的(de)(de)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)質量(liang)。性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)欲較強(qiang)者(zhe)(zhe),性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)伴(ban)侶(lv)不(bu)(bu)能(neng)滿足時(shi),借以釋放(fang)多(duo)余性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)能(neng)量(liang)從而(er)穩(wen)定相互關系。性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)功能(neng)較差者(zhe)(zhe)可(ke)通過(guo)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)具強(qiang)烈刺激,影響(xiang)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)閾值,達到性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)高潮,獲得性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)滿足。當(dang)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)未能(neng)盡興時(shi),可(ke)借助性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)具刺激、輔助,達到性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)高潮。而(er)處于絕(jue)經期(qi)的(de)(de)女性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)可(ke)以通過(guo)使用(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)品保持陰道彈性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing),避免(mian)小便失禁和其他疾病。對男性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)陽痿、女性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)冷感患者(zhe)(zhe)可(ke)以用(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)具進行(xing)誘導或治療。配(pei)偶一(yi)(yi)方有(you)病或致殘、寡居而(er)無(wu)法進行(xing)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)者(zhe)(zhe),性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)具是自(zi)慰工具。
二、正確使用性用品
不(bu)可否認(ren)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)(pin)能(neng)(neng)帶來(lai)不(bu)同(tong)程度(du)的(de)快感乃至性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)高潮,的(de)確解決了部分(fen)人的(de)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)壓(ya)抑、性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)煩(fan)惱和(he)(he)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)焦慮。但(dan)它畢(bi)竟(jing)只是(shi)輔助(zhu)工具,不(bu)能(neng)(neng)完全(quan)代替(ti)(ti)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)伴(ban)侶(lv),更不(bu)能(neng)(neng)代替(ti)(ti)伴(ban)侶(lv)之間(jian)的(de)愛撫和(he)(he)溫(wen)存。過(guo)分(fen)依(yi)賴器(qi)具,會(hui)導致對正常的(de)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)逐漸產生(sheng)厭惡情(qing)緒(xu)。如果頻繁使用(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)(pin),或使用(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)(pin)強度(du)過(guo)大(da),容易引起陰(yin)道生(sheng)殖(zhi)器(qi)損傷、出血和(he)(he)感染。如果青春(chun)年少者過(guo)早使用(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)(pin),容易產生(sheng)前列(lie)腺炎(yan)、性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)功(gong)能(neng)(neng)障礙、性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)欲下降等一(yi)系列(lie)后(hou)遺癥。
三、節制使用性用品
不(bu)要(yao)太(tai)過頻繁使(shi)用(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin),以免導致身體(ti)(ti)‘性(xing)(xing)(xing)興(xing)奮(fen)(fen)”敏感(gan)度下降(jiang),性(xing)(xing)(xing)喚起會(hui)越來越難(nan)。長(chang)期、經常使(shi)用(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin),有的(de)過分(fen)(fen)追求刺(ci)(ci)(ci)激(ji)(ji)、快感(gan)而(er)(er)挑選那(nei)些稀奇古怪的(de)性(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin),并(bing)長(chang)期過度性(xing)(xing)(xing)興(xing)奮(fen)(fen)和(he)強烈(lie)刺(ci)(ci)(ci)激(ji)(ji),導致身體(ti)(ti)已經習慣了強刺(ci)(ci)(ci)激(ji)(ji),反(fan)而(er)(er)對一(yi)(yi)般性(xing)(xing)(xing)的(de)正常性(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活刺(ci)(ci)(ci)激(ji)(ji)難(nan)起反(fan)應(ying),必(bi)須一(yi)(yi)次比一(yi)(yi)次刺(ci)(ci)(ci)激(ji)(ji)得更夸張(zhang)、猛(meng)烈(lie)才能讓人(ren)體(ti)(ti)興(xing)奮(fen)(fen)起來。因此,不(bu)能沉迷于性(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)的(de)強烈(lie)刺(ci)(ci)(ci)激(ji)(ji),要(yao)適可(ke)而(er)(er)止,盡量克(ke)制(zhi)自己,把注意(yi)力(li)分(fen)(fen)散在工作或者(zhe)其他生(sheng)活愛好上(shang)。雖然(ran)使(shi)用(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)以增(zeng)加性(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活的(de)趣味性(xing)(xing)(xing),但是專家(jia)認為,性(xing)(xing)(xing)功能正常、性(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活和(he)諧(xie)的(de)人(ren)并(bing)不(bu)需要(yao)使(shi)用(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)就可(ke)獲得性(xing)(xing)(xing)滿足。
四、正確選擇性用品
要選(xuan)擇合(he)格的(de)、優質(zhi)的(de)性用(yong)品(pin),并注(zhu)意衛(wei)生。面對市場上奇(qi)形(xing)怪狀(zhuang)的(de)性用(yong)品(pin),一定要選(xuan)擇那些(xie)合(he)格的(de)、知名度高的(de)優質(zhi)產品(pin),如(ru)有合(he)格證、質(zhi)地柔軟、表面光潔(jie),事(shi)后要清洗干凈,并定期消(xiao)毒以保證衛(wei)生。性用(yong)品(pin)僅限個人和伴侶共(gong)同使用(yong),不(bu)得借用(yong)或轉讓;不(bu)可以放在陰暗潮濕或小孩看到和拿(na)到的(de)地方。
五、協商使用性用品
最(zui)好能(neng)雙方(fang)經過溝(gou)通(tong),形成共識(shi),獲得對(dui)方(fang)的支(zhi)持(chi)一起共同使用(yong)性用(yong)品(pin)。性用(yong)品(pin)可以給人帶來(lai)高潮,但不能(neng)給人帶來(lai)愛撫,所以它根本不能(neng)取代伴侶(lv),如果自己決(jue)定使用(yong),會(hui)給伴侶(lv)造成心(xin)理壓力,有的會(hui)心(xin)生厭(yan)惡,反而會(hui)影響夫妻關系。因此相互(hu)溝(gou)通(tong),相互(hu)體諒,相互(hu)支(zhi)持(chi),最(zui)好能(neng)協商(shang)一致(zhi)共同使用(yong)。
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