一、正確認識性用品

人(ren)們應當消(xiao)除對性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用品的(de)(de)(de)認(ren)識誤區(qu)。生(sheng)活中有(you)人(ren)誤認(ren)為使用性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用品僅(jin)僅(jin)是(shi)(shi)為了滿(man)(man)足自(zi)(zi)慰(wei)，會傷害(hai)伴(ban)侶的(de)(de)(de)感(gan)(gan)情和(he)(he)傷害(hai)自(zi)(zi)己(ji)的(de)(de)(de)身(shen)體等。事實上，性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用品的(de)(de)(de)使用有(you)諸(zhu)多好處。在(zai)生(sheng)理(li)發育成熟而又沒有(you)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)伴(ban)侶的(de)(de)(de)情況(kuang)下(xia)，使用性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用品是(shi)(shi)正常的(de)(de)(de)、緩解性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)饑渴、釋(shi)放性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)緊張(zhang)的(de)(de)(de)一(yi)種方(fang)(fang)式，能(neng)提供性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)享受，避免(mian)不良(liang)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)行為，減少性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)病傳播。如果夫(fu)妻一(yi)起共(gong)同使用，可(ke)以增添性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活情趣(qu)，密切伴(ban)侶關系，增加彼此信任，提升兩人(ren)的(de)(de)(de)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活質(zhi)量(liang)。性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)欲較強者(zhe)，性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)伴(ban)侶不能(neng)滿(man)(man)足時，借(jie)以釋(shi)放多余(yu)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)能(neng)量(liang)從而穩定相(xiang)互(hu)關系。性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)功能(neng)較差者(zhe)可(ke)通(tong)過(guo)(guo)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)具(ju)強烈刺激，影響性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)閾值，達到性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)高潮(chao)，獲(huo)得性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)滿(man)(man)足。當性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活未能(neng)盡(jin)興時，可(ke)借(jie)助(zhu)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)具(ju)刺激、輔助(zhu)，達到性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)高潮(chao)。而處于絕經期的(de)(de)(de)女(nv)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)可(ke)以通(tong)過(guo)(guo)使用性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用品保持陰道彈性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)，避免(mian)小便失禁和(he)(he)其他疾病。對男性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)陽痿、女(nv)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)冷感(gan)(gan)患者(zhe)可(ke)以用性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用具(ju)進行誘導(dao)或(huo)治療。配偶一(yi)方(fang)(fang)有(you)病或(huo)致殘(can)、寡(gua)居而無法進行性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活者(zhe)，性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)具(ju)是(shi)(shi)自(zi)(zi)慰(wei)工具(ju)。

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二、正確使用性用品

不可(ke)否認性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用品(pin)能帶(dai)來不同程度的(de)(de)快(kuai)感乃至性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)高潮，的(de)(de)確(que)解(jie)決了部分(fen)人的(de)(de)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)壓(ya)抑、性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)煩惱和性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)焦慮。但它畢竟只是(shi)輔助工(gong)具，不能完全代替(ti)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)伴侶，更不能代替(ti)伴侶之間的(de)(de)愛撫和溫(wen)存。過分(fen)依(yi)賴器具，會(hui)導致對正常的(de)(de)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)逐漸(jian)產生(sheng)厭(yan)惡情緒。如(ru)(ru)果頻繁使(shi)用性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用品(pin)，或使(shi)用性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用品(pin)強(qiang)度過大，容易引(yin)起陰道生(sheng)殖器損傷、出血和感染。如(ru)(ru)果青(qing)春年(nian)少(shao)者過早使(shi)用性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用品(pin)，容易產生(sheng)前列腺(xian)炎(yan)、性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)功能障礙、性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)欲下降等一系(xi)列后遺癥。

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三、節制使用性用品

不要(yao)太過(guo)頻繁使(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品(pin)(pin)，以(yi)免導(dao)致身(shen)體‘性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)興奮”敏感(gan)度下降，性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)喚起會越來越難。長(chang)期、經常使(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品(pin)(pin)，有的(de)(de)(de)過(guo)分追求刺(ci)激(ji)、快感(gan)而挑(tiao)選那些稀奇古怪的(de)(de)(de)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品(pin)(pin)，并(bing)長(chang)期過(guo)度性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)興奮和(he)強烈刺(ci)激(ji)，導(dao)致身(shen)體已經習(xi)慣了強刺(ci)激(ji)，反而對一般性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)的(de)(de)(de)正常性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)刺(ci)激(ji)難起反應，必須一次比一次刺(ci)激(ji)得(de)更夸張、猛烈才能(neng)讓人(ren)(ren)體興奮起來。因(yin)此，不能(neng)沉迷于性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品(pin)(pin)的(de)(de)(de)強烈刺(ci)激(ji)，要(yao)適可而止，盡量克(ke)制自己，把注(zhu)意力分散在工作或者其他生(sheng)活(huo)愛(ai)好(hao)上。雖然使(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品(pin)(pin)以(yi)增(zeng)加性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)的(de)(de)(de)趣味性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)，但是專(zhuan)家認為，性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)功能(neng)正常、性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)和(he)諧的(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)并(bing)不需要(yao)使(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品(pin)(pin)就可獲得(de)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)滿(man)足。

四、正確選擇性用品

要(yao)選擇合(he)(he)格的(de)(de)、優質的(de)(de)性用(yong)品，并注(zhu)意衛(wei)生。面(mian)(mian)對市場上奇形怪(guai)狀的(de)(de)性用(yong)品，一定要(yao)選擇那些合(he)(he)格的(de)(de)、知名(ming)度高的(de)(de)優質產品，如有合(he)(he)格證、質地柔軟、表面(mian)(mian)光(guang)潔，事后要(yao)清洗干凈，并定期消毒以保證衛(wei)生。性用(yong)品僅限個人和伴侶共同使用(yong)，不(bu)得借用(yong)或轉讓；不(bu)可以放在陰(yin)暗潮(chao)濕或小孩看到(dao)(dao)和拿到(dao)(dao)的(de)(de)地方。

五、協商使用性用品

最好能(neng)(neng)雙(shuang)方(fang)經過(guo)溝通，形成共(gong)(gong)(gong)識，獲得(de)對方(fang)的支(zhi)持一起共(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)使用(yong)性(xing)用(yong)品(pin)。性(xing)用(yong)品(pin)可以(yi)給人帶來(lai)高(gao)潮，但不(bu)能(neng)(neng)給人帶來(lai)愛撫(fu)，所以(yi)它根本不(bu)能(neng)(neng)取代伴(ban)侶，如果(guo)自己決定使用(yong)，會給伴(ban)侶造成心理壓力，有的會心生厭(yan)惡(e)，反而會影響夫妻關系。因此相互溝通，相互體(ti)諒，相互支(zhi)持，最好能(neng)(neng)協商一致共(gong)(gong)(gong)同(tong)使用(yong)。